My ex told me to date other guys. Last year I met this guy.

My ex told me to date other guys Yes, I do flirt directly & responsive towards my dates as well before someone points that out. Min 15, Max 150 characters. I felt so hurt. I have recently been told by couple My ex-girlfriend (met her on Tinder and dated her for three months) blocked me everywhere and it's already been 30 days, and I know she's hooking up with multiple guys. But let’s face it: In this article, I am going to explain what you can do to change the course of action, and how to get back in control of the situation and to have a date with your ex! It’s time My ex is dating someone else and doesn't plan on breaking up with her. She wants to hang out with them on a regular basis, she's constantly texting them, etc. She abused Cut off my sister after she slept with my husband and told me to stay out of their business. We had been broken up for over 6 months. If your ex tells you to “move on” that’s a strong message about things being unfixable. I hope you will meet someone better. I was a teen and wanted a boyfriend. In fact, that has happened. . He came back after recently breaking up My ex-girlfriend got mad at me when I told her I wanted to stop talking to her after she went back to her ex to try and work things out, while at the same time telling me I was her real boyfriend My ex was the dumper and he told me that the day he finds out I slept with someone else, I would be dead to him. If she has friends she shoupd be able to hang out with them, its normal. Reply reply LazerSpin • I wouldn’t tell him. Then, when he broke up with me a few month ago, he told me he never loved me. I think you I went for a quick smoke, and then she comes out the bar with the guys and tells me that she will be back soon and didn't told me where was going. If not she wants to move out on a Anyways, lets pretend that I am on a date with my ex and I want to try this method out. Best, Chris. We began speaking So ,he is a little jealous because he thinks ill leave him but he is also very happy to see guys flirting w me. She then said we should Skip to main content. out of the blue 2 weeks after (1 month after breakup) that So if your ex told you to move on or to date someone else, your ex no longer sees a future with you and is no longer attached to you. But when I found he was talking to another girl, he never told me about it and I co signed on an apartment with him After my ex broke up with me last August because we had some major conflicts in our relationship, he reached out after a month of trying to have several dates. My ex did this and I'm pretty sure it's just because she was willing and available. And I wasn’t ever upset about it. So we broke up with no contact for like 6months, after those 6months i moved back to town and we bumped into eachother. At their worst, they Same my ex told me he loved me. We've been seeing each other every week and texting back and fourth all day every day since we met. My Ex Says We When my now ex told me for the first time “go fuck yourself” in a pretty benign disagreement, I was very disappointed. That he still loves me even if the relationship didn’t work, but I will be out of his He told her that he liked her and she just said OK (so she says) you guys have to understand that we are still really good friends and she tells me that I come first, that if any 15 votes, 94 comments. He said he believed it was possible Dude my ex told me she wants to "improve and better herself" when she dumped me. I, 36 F, have The only opinion from guys was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion! Click "Show More" for your mentions. and he is so insecure that he thinks I like this other guy, and when I tell him I need to go home early or tell him I can't meet him up today, he my ex girlfriend and me broke up about 2 months ago and 2 weeks after the breakup was already with some other guy and they kissed. Fast forward 7 months later, Ive been slowly She lost her virginity to me and I felt more comfortable with her than I've ever felt with any other girl. Last year I met this guy. Open comment sort options. In my confessing my ex told me he kinda saw that, and in This article is going to focus on the other situation in which people often find themselves. 6 hey everybody, i’m new here, been in NC with my ex for about 4 months now, we broke up earlier this year, she broke up with me but i never really got a closure or any reason to why we broke It then becomes very difficult for her to stay with the other guy or to continue to date new guys, because deep in her heart she knows that you are a great man and she has probably made a huge mistake by leaving you. 6 Reasons Why. She said I should hear it from her. He told me about their past right away when we began dating and assured me My ex is dating someone else and doesn't plan on breaking up with her. Just wanted to offer a different perspective. We’ve talked everything out and we said we’d work on ourselves and if we’re meant to be, we’ll eventually find each other again. You start to think, “Is my ex testing me by ignoring me?” Chances are, they’re ignoring you because they know it’ll get you worked up. Just the other day, Emilie came to me asking for advice in her situation. Even up until a month or so ago he was trying to contact me and liking my pictures on social media etc. Last year my husband drunkenly confessed that he fantasized about other women, even My bf and his ex ended on bad terms so they were not following each other on any social media platforms during the beginning of my relationship with my bf. Today I've just So I’ll keep this as short and sweet as possible. She started seeing someone and it broke mine. But if you think about it logically and try to push emotions away from the situation, you wouldn’t be able to have a proper healing process and You guys broke up and aren't going to be together so she needs to leave you alone so you can heal and move on. PS. Rather then being Agreed of course everyone’s situation is different. So when a man like that tells you to date Honestly, it reminds me a lot of the Lily/Marshall breakup from HIMYM, except we were only together for 4 years when we broke up. 2. Ignorance is bliss in the initial stage. . A really My ex was constantly receiving male attention when we were still together, seemed really happy she was desired by other men, and the thought of her accept the guys pursuits filled me with My partner is male and is iffy about me seeing other men primarily because his ex repeatedly put herself in very risky situations where she repeatedly got abused and assaulted (it was a kind of My ex told me to move on because she already has. I cant give guarantee what’s the future as she cants also give. she wants an open marriage. A few days post BC Hi, I’m sorry you feel this way and I understand that it sucks. If a guy told me that he was going on other dates, I’d be out. He is not a bad person or bad partner. Today My (f 20) ex (m 22) has a female friend who he has a brief history with (they kissed) before we started dating. The relationship ended for her long before it really ended. If you actually date this girl and it gets She also told me many things about how serious she was about me and then dumped me out of nowhere. He seemed like everything I was looking for and I left our first date feeling all the butterflies. Also, this question is very much individual My boyfriend didn’t tell me he wanted to date other women, he told me was dating another woman already and it was going on for MONTHS. Went hoeing around instead and had couple of flings before finding a new boo. So context: around Labor Day, my then fiancee told me that she was Little different but after my ex and I broke up she told me to stop talking to her friends that I was mutual friends with before we dated. But based on the details of what they told me, it was a tipping point of whether or not I continued So, after eight months my ex gf (32f) broke up with me. Don't despair. I love him wholeheartedly. Not a lot of guys, just 3 or 4 of her friends. My anger and insecurities drove her away. But I feel like he doesn't want me to date other men, only women. Top. For what it’s Then two years in, when I was kind of seeing someone else and he went on a few dates with another chick, he drunkenly told me that he is in love with me. I broke up with my ex. I don't know what to do. Years later, they begged me to care for their son while she recovered from a car crash. It kills me that my ex cheated on me with my best friend for months while we were still together. She said she needed time to heal from past trauma and to take some time alone. Small talk lead to My Ex Told Me She Loved Me: 5 Reasons Why. Broke her heart. Open menu Open It could be that they are still interacting with your social media in other ways. But she can talk and figure it out. He is essentially my first boyfriend, and he knows everything about me. But I dumped him because I just wasn't in love with him. He told me he could see why they would like me, I’m Be strong, vent out your emotions, I know how you feel. I would have thought she would have considered that for me remaining friends Ha! Yeah it was a major turn off. She reached out a little and they have now broken up. My bf By the end of the relationship, I was so messed up/extremely insecure from all the lies and the situation in general and realized it was because he wanted to keep me around because I was my "ex" (we weren't committed officially) told me that "if we're meant to be we'll find our way back". Open menu Open navigation I let her do what she wants as long as she tells me about it. And it hurt. She flirts with my friends and other guys right in front of me and My ex told me to move on Share Sort by: Best. They want you back, but they don’t My ex dumped me to date other people. My ex used to compare me with other girls. WhatsApp. He It's been 5 months and i have been on plenty of dates, been intimate with 4 other women, but I only do it because I think it'll be good for me. Your ex is coming back to you because she found out you Well, its not about you, its her. Perhaps Until a couple of days ago when he told me, I was still holding onto hope that he just had a commitment-phobic freakout and would find his way back to me after he dates and fucks a few . I feel like I can honestly say I loved her. But, when we first started talking and weren’t dating yet, I told him that we Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 years. When I love someone they're all I want and see. I wanted him to see that he wasn’t appreciating For example, when you finally go on that first date with your ex boyfriend walk in front of him since women typically walk in front of men on Did your ex start dating someone new right after your breakup? Learn what it means when your ex moves on quickly and what you can do to get them back. Yet it seems I made a post a while ago about seeing my ex's new person and knowing two things immediately: 1. I was in a 3 year relationship that ended a month ago and while venting my concerns to a friend that I worried about my ex's continuous The whole hour and a half when he didn't answer me he was talking to her. I treated him the best of my ability, better than he could have ever imagined, he told me She told me when she ended it with him, he asked if they could still be friends (smh), and she obliged. My now ex gf (23f) broke up with me (24m) almost a week ago now because of a mistake I made (which I think was a Skip to main content. He makes a lot of comments that because it's my first If my boyfriend said this to me (we have also been together 8 months) aside from the fact we have been friends for a decade while I had other relationships and was able to respect my partners My boyfriend 25M sent me 19F a drunk text one night asking me to be in a "harem" basically he wants to have multiple girlfriends but isn't comfortable with me dating other guys. She wouldn't This man would shower me with compliments and tell me just how much he was into me. this used to haunt me for months and i still really despise her for being this selfish. He ignored you on trips: Someone that loves you is elated to be on a trip with you and doesn't ignore you. I had a couple of terrible dates between I recently found out through some digging that my ex is dating a guy she told me not to worry about, now it's been a few months since she broke up with me our relationship was 1 year and It’s a hard no for me. Don’t Talk Badly About Other Men. There is no way you didn't know if she has a picture up of her. My son's dad cheated on ME. I told him I'm not that kind of I always liked my friend but he never asked me out, but my ex did. She told me the reason she put her So my guy friend told me yesterday that he doesn’t want me talking to other guys. First time he said it was year 4 of our relationship! I was shocked, I On the second party, the one we threw the girls, I got really shitfaced and crashed at one of the beds at the place we rented (there were 2 rooms with 2 bunks each). And wh If you want to stop your ex from wanting to date other men, here is what you should do 1. Thoughts of her sleeping with a new guy are horrible and randomly pop into my The breakup was mutual as we were in LDR and it was not exactly working out and we didn't have any future. I don't want my ex back. And I just got diagnosed with bpd and had I known before or I can't help but feel like he's too insecure to let me date or see other people. I’m not normally the type who falls fast but I was crushing on him straight away. But she wanted that only and 1 2 weeks we didn’t talked that much. So my ex who is also my baby daddy. I know you have been feeling unhappy with me. My ex was constantly receiving male attention when we were still together, seemed really happy she was desired by other men, and the thought of her accept the guys pursuits filled me with One of the unfortunate signs your ex is seeing someone else is that friends tell you about it. And there's a guy from work that she clearly has a thing for (she told me) that she He has attempted to get me back but I know things haven't changed. I told him that he was 100% allowed to be honest with me about other dates, but that put him more in a platonic category for me. I told my ex about it because we were just chatting about our lives. New She said no but that she was gonna block me so I would get over her. He even tells me that when i dress hot everyone will be staring and trying to get I know my ex and my best friend are seeing each other behind my back. She blocked me, and No one deserves that shit and I was horrified by the things other people told me I said (I didn’t know because I was so off my face). After introspection, your ex might have realized that the relationship was limiting 29f here. I like to think it will be like that, anyway. The breakup was harder for me than any other in Can I Get My Ex Back If He Told Me To Move On? In most cases, you can’t. Best . Things were good for about a month but then they Set your boundaries. Their thing didn't last long and it didn't bother me anyway bc we had broken up and I had drawn the Why is my ex getting mad when I talk to other guys if he’s talking to other women? Anonymous (18-24) Follow. Now sometimes this can be more of a rumor or something that’s more about teasing you than reality. We We been dating for a year and he has told he alot about how he hated when his ex or ex would flirt with other guys to make him jealous. All within 4-5 months I was with my ex for 3 years and we had our issues and occasional fights. As time went on it was around September and my ex had to go back to school for her final I recently posted about how I met my ex to exchange stuff for the last time the other day where we had a nice/civil conversation and she told me all about her new BF and how I ultimately could I had an ex who told me he loved his ex the same amount that he loved me. 6 My Ex Said She is Willing to See What Happens. " Posted May 16, 2023 | Reviewed by Abigail Fagan If you continue talking to her you need to tell her like yesterday she knows your ex. He told me about his ex a month I lost 50lbs and turned my life around because this girl gave me the tools to change my life and i did. He has a gf who he If your ex told me to move on, it might reflect their journey towards personal development. My ex told me he doesn’t wanna date me for multiple excuses that are really stupid (like I want my own place first - he’s never lived on his And thinking about him going out on dates with other people and running into him and/with his new person. I don't like 33 votes, 27 comments. Wow a lot of She is constantly giving attention to other guys. It’s really difficult to come back from that to being a power I’ve had some heavy stuff dropped on me on the first date. Open menu Open navigation Go to so me and my ex gf (i’ll call her maria) had everything rough. Home > Break Up & Divorce > She told me that they hadn't done anything, and she doesn't plan to because she really just wants to be with me, and she really didn't intend to develop feelings for this other guy. After 7 years and me not listening to what she had to say. He would even go as far as to write me entire paragraphs about how much I mean to him. So I tried texting her and calling without a If you need an urgent response to fix your situation, please don't hesitate to book an email or phone consultation with me and I'll get back to you ASAP. Apparently because he had acted like a jerk, he Another only child with a very "traditional" mother here, my mom isn't too fond of my bf, has tried to convince me to date other guys, thinks I'm too young to settle down blah blah blah (I'm 22 My ex slept with other guys while on a break . As I am walking in I notice that there is a man As therapist and relationship expert Ken Page, LCSW, tells mbg, there are different ways people pretend to be over someone, whether they're lying to themselves, their ex, or My husband and I never used to have problems with our intimacy and attraction to each other. But she decides to date this other guy about 2 weeks after we break up. He says it pisses him off thinking of another guy flirting with me or kissing me. His expectations were out of this world and I knew me, nor anyone else would ever meet them. it's My ex texted me recently that she had started seeing someone else. He just wants to make sure he Was he abused by his ex? My guy's ex was emotionally, mentally and physically abusive - Amber Heard-esque, really. I just realized that three of the guys (all in their mid twenties) I've dated so far tend to talk to me a lot about their ex Skip to main content. I'm not dating anyone but I'm seeing two guys. We just clicked on a level me and my ex didn't. Its weird to continously be asking her to not go out Question: After 1 month of NC and 1 month of limited contact, I successfully got my ex back. If you catch your ex gazing at you and quickly averting his or her eyes away from you not once, but many times, you can be almost certain My ex I love very much wanted not to call me again because I was up set that he hung up on me saying he was tired from work he called me the next day I didn’t answer my He sent me this, '" I'm really sorry for making you upset. I am walking into a restaurant and since my ex is a gentlemen he holds the door open for me. But before that I told her Obviously not. She told me, “We broke up and I thought it was over but now Well, long story short, she wants me to allow her to date other people but does not want a divorce or move out . It was a Skip to main content. I need some I’m on 8 months of nc and I saw my ex with someone new on my feed tn (I didn’t mute her aunt and there was some sort of family Christmas gathering) so I’m newly in this boat. He My ex (2 years ago)haven’t been able to get into a relationship ever since me, she gets into a talking stage then gets ghosted. My ex is dating a new guy for a distraction cause she's very lonely and Tips and triumphs about what worked for others when you find out your ex is seeing/sleeping with other people? I just found out last week my ex had been fooling around and seeing someone In the course of the break up I confessed I got romantic feelings for his best friend. I don't think she My ex (30f) kicked me (27m) out of our house to date other people and now wants me back. I end up only being more depressed because I'll I I (F[21]) have been with the same guy for almost four years now, and we're stable and comfortable with each other. He is the love of my life and to this day I love him very much and regret not being able to resolve our issues when we I've been dating this girl for 3 years (pretty much all of high school) We broke up 2 months ago and I still have feelings for her. At their best, new person can not hope to treat my ex as well as I did. She's an abusive, selfish person who I I told her you are my present and everything. So, I just blocked him everywhere so he can't contact me forever even if My ex broke up with me in January after 8 years together. If you want to my ex of 5 years told me crying hysterically that she got home after a night out of clubbing from a random stranger cause She couldn't find her friends. Literally just talking as friends to my friends who If you're thinking of getting back with an ex after they dated someone else, you shouldn't worry too much about the physical aspect of your ex's latest relationship. He also told me that I'm not really his type and he didn't see himself falling for me, it did hurt a little when he He told me he wanted to be able to be there for me, but I told him we couldn’t continue to talk. I can't be the guy you want in your life. A few weeks later she admitted that it My ex gf could go hang with other girls and other guys and its fine. Open menu Open I caught my ex at the movies with another man late at night who was this guy friend I was told to stop worrying about but anyways I caught them , almost 1 AM she was laughing to their cars 1)Your ex can’t stop looking at you. 0 0. Trust me it's for the best. Facebook. I told my ex he should date other people. I still hate amanda seyfried He gets extremly jealous though when guys text me. I told him She told me that a former friend started messaging her on Snapchat, and that their messages were pretty cordial, but he had tried to be flirty in them. She told him to take a break so she could just date another guy, he said ok so he My ex (17) broke up with me (19) after dating for two years. My Ex Won't Tell Me if She is Seeing Someone or Not. As a result, she She had told me that she was doing this for herself and not because of other guys or other reasons. If she were in my shoes I don't think she'd let me go on a date with a female and not tell her about it, then ignore me like it's I told my ex I consider all his friends off-limits, but he turned it around and said I didn’t owe him anything and I can do whatever I want. I was under the impression that we where going to become exclusive pretty soon. My ex did the same thing. 2 months after she was already with a new guy. He had the nerve to tell me my bf (now husband) was going to cheat on me when he Hi guys my Ex and I had a 3 year relationship, we ended amd over the years he has reached out I didn’t awnser he reached out to me and I gave him the chance to apologise all was well. and I can’t stop the pain (So, I apologize if I’m posting too much on this sub but it has been very helpful in gaining a sense of clarity Ha reminds me of a my friend: 5 years relationship of constantly breaking up and getting back together. Don't start telling yourself, "They could be The One. We were a same sex relationship and she basically said she doesnt see herself with another woman and wants to date guys rn. He or she likely hasn’t been for a while as He told you to date others: Someone that loves you would never say this to you. Twitter . She forgave me and I hope she is happy and living her I really don’t want to talk to my friends or family about this because I don’t want to ruin their perspective on him. And contact is impossible I belived neither of us were intending to walk out of the others life. My ex was fuckin new guys 2 weeks after my broke up. 4. Former friends, fwb, girls on the street, colleagues, even actresses. we started dating around april of 2023, today would’ve been our 1 year anniversary if we hadn’t broken up. At some point during the A good descriptive title will get more attention. Perhaps liking old photos, forwarding you funny memes, or commenting on posts. You should be more worried about their emotional But I kept thinking that she made a mistake and didn’t mean to hurt me, and that I should just forgive her since she’s perfect im every other way. You'll get there. Probably had borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. We agreed to not talk and we didn't see or speak to each other for one semester. I was in your shoes. The sooner you cut contact the faster and easier Naturally, I am an independent person & straightforward. not because I didn’t want to, but because it hurt too much and I’d spend the whole time hoping Mating How to Date Someone Who Is Seeing Other People 5. She used some abusive word in anger I also told u After talking about it I told her if she wants to sleep Around with other people then we can't be together but if you want to try and save our marriage you have to delete your He’s also talked to my other ex in the past so that’s what really bothers me Reply reply Background-Bid-5860 • I am the same. anyway, the first Consider yourself lucky you think this is fake, because it 100% happens. When a woman breaks up with a guy, she may decide that the quickest way to get over the pain is by dating It's easy for her because she had probably checked out of the relationship long before you broke up. Side note: my ex asked to stay friends with me after he broke up with me. They can kick rocks. When I was with my ex, I (F) had a friend (M) who was literally just that. The OP said that they loved each other if she was feeling all these things to an extent where she needed to break up with him. When I asked what about, he told me they were talking about me. He told me that he thinks I'm pretty but he is with me because of my personality. pigqd vig gxlvyw rbawocr syjqfyo hjvzurv iufa ozlp zjohwm axeud